My daughter has two mums. I’m her other mother

At three, my daughter Evie is already an outlier. 

She has Māori heritage, a phobia of lawn mowers, and a rare condition called resting bradycardia — which means her heart beats slower than usual when she’s asleep.

She also has two mums: my partner Jessie and me.

Jessie is Evie’s birth mum, her…